Glossary of Terms

AF = Aunt Flo (your period) BBT = Basal Body Temperature BD = Bed Down or Baby Dance (literally means having sex) BFN = Big Fat Negative (negative pregnancy test) BFP = Big Fat Positive (positive pregnancy test!!!!) CD = Cycle Day (with day 1 being the first day of your period) CM = … Continue Reading


We all want to have control, especially when it comes to family. Creating a miniature version of yourself or your partner, I get it. I felt the same way when we began planning for our family. But once the baby gets here, you’ll see. They will decide who they are, what toys they play with, … Continue Reading

Sex-selection is a good thing!

In western society, there is a strong preference for sex balancing, that is, maintaining a proper ratio of boys to girls in a family. It’s no surprise that a mother of 5 girls would yearn for a little boy to add some masculinity to her brood. A father of all boys might want to have … Continue Reading

Why do you want to have a girl or a boy?

I’m encouraging you now to think about why you want a girl or a boy. Do you want to dress your daughter up in cute outfits and bows and play dolls with her? Do you want to watch football with your son and wrestle with him? I can’t promise your child will do any of … Continue Reading

Sex vs Gender

Sex. I know, it’s just as weird for me to type it as it is for you to read it. But, we’re gonna talk about it–a lot. It’s the focus of this whole website! No, I don’t mean the actual sex you’ll be having with your partner to conceive your baby. I mean “sex” as … Continue Reading